Before Day 0
A deferred exchange needs the qualified intermediary and exchange documents in place before the relinquished-property sale closes. At closing, the exchange proceeds go to the qualified intermediary rather than to the seller. The sale date is Day 0 for both calculations.
Use the closing statement to confirm the transfer date, then ask the qualified intermediary to confirm the two calendar dates. The calculator is a second view of that arithmetic, not the transaction record.